What Does 20 Years of Marriage Mean?

Marriage Quote by Rita Rudner

Marriage Quote by Rita Rudner
Celebrating 20 years of marriage

 

Twenty years. What can a person accomplish in 20 years?  Well, apparently, and somehow, against all odds, being the child of multiple divorces, I have accomplished a marriage.

 

Today is my 20th anniversary.

 

Twenty years ago today, I was wearing a gigantic white satin Eve of Milady dress that was so large it required it’s own bedroom in my Mother’s house, and three people to hold it up so I could pee, and chomping at the bit for my turn down the aisle. I was excited. No jitters for me. This was my moment.

 

20 Years of Marriage

20 Years of Marriage

 

The party was planned down to every last detail, including tiny white rosettes which were glue-gunned onto black and gold napkin rings made from the same ribbons used in the bouquets. My event was going to go off without a hitch. Never mind the band didn’t know how to play OUR SONG, More Than Words by Extreme. Everything else was going to go great. Not to worry that my father was late, and I walked in on him and my mother in the bathroom and after 20 years of divorce she was helping him get dressed, which was completely weird. That was all secondary.

 

20 years before: under the Chuppah

20 years before: under the Chuppah

 

It wasn’t even just about the wedding. It was about the marriage. Me, and Jack, and making a family. I knew that a lot of brides lost sight of that, but I wasn’t going to.

 

Happiness at the wedding

Marking 20 Years of Marriage

 

I knew that I was getting MARRIED.

 

That I would be a WIFE.

 

That it would be WORK.

 

That there would be UPS and DOWNS and even SIDEWAYS. I knew all these things, but I really had no idea what they would mean. I was 25 years old, in love, and excited to embark on a grand adventure. One that was beginning with three weeks in France and Italy. That’s reality.

 

Twenty years. Three children. Four dogs, two houses. Jobs, careers, career changes, romance, arguments, making up. Socks thrown (better than books or dishes, right?) screaming, laughter, tears, and love. Roadblocks, understanding, headbanging, wallbanging (you know what I mean), making out, making up, and the odd “Get the hell out.”

 

Twenty years of compromise and respect, and the occasional disrespect. And understanding that you can love someone but not like them for that moment.

 

All those years, and I didn’t really get it. I mean, I got it a bit, because we’ve made it through some pretty interesting times. But, until last week, I didn’t understand the depth of it. The reason it’s lasted 20 years.

 

Have you read The Gift of the Magi by O.Henry? I have read it so many times, but it has never truly resonated with me. Until now.

 

In the story, James and Dilla want more than anything to buy each other the perfect Christmas present. But, they don’t have very much money. Life is tough  but they have one another to lean on. This one time, though, they want to do something special for their true love, to make them happy with a ‘thing’. But, as they find out, it’s really the thought, the mutual sacrifice, that really matters.

 

The Gift of the Magi, the irony of the gifts that James and  Dilla gave each other, the offerings that they would make to ensure their partner’s happiness above their own. That is what marriage truly is.

 

After 20 years, I know this. Because I’ve just experienced it.

 

So, I believe, that’s why we stay together, no matter how many fists are clenched in frustration, how many nasty retorts are bitten back or complaints are made about an unloaded dishwasher or a forgotten call home. When we’re both stressed to the max and have nothing left over, when we ask too many questions, or not enough. When all we can feel and see is that feeling of “Who IS this person? And why? Just why?”

 

No matter all of that, when my husband would sell his proverbial watch to buy me a jewelled comb for my hair,  I know that he loves me. That we’re meant for each other.

 

That is what you can accomplish in 20 years.

 

 

Welcome to Good Eats Friday

Not only have I started sharing my own recipes with y’all, now I’m also going to share the best of an amazing group of cooks I know. We’re Good Eats and every week, we share one recipe with each other. Good Times. It’s like a built-in cooking channel. Very convenient.

 

We’ve got a Pinterest Board you can follow too. But, to make it easy, I’ll pick four dishes each week that have tickled my taste buds.

 

Good Eats Friday May 10

Good Eats Friday May 10: Bacon, Zucchini, and Breakfast for Dinner

 

This week, I’ve got bacon two ways (my boys will be thrilled), my husband’s absolute favorite comfort food, and stealth health. So, without further ado…

 

Spring greens, eggs, bacon.. How good do those sound. Not only does Foodie Prints share a delicious recipe for Spaghetti Carbonara, she gives lots of tips and tricks for the preparation of this deceptively simple dish. If you love Carbonara, but don’t want to prepare it with raw eggs, this is is definitely the recipe for you. Did I mention bacon? My teenagers will eat anything as long as there’s bacon. 

 

Next, is my personal favorite supper for when I’m too lazy to cook: Breakfast for Dinner. Becky at A Bit of Momsense rustles up a gorgeous but quick meal that includes bacon potato hash, a perfectly fried egg, and something called Thorbread. Her food always looks so gorgeous too. (And fried potatoes are one of my secret indulgences. You didn’t know that, did you…)

 

If I like breakfast for dinner, my husband absolutely adores comfort food. When we were first married, I used to make tuna casserole for him. I did sometimes cheat with boxed macaroni, but what did I know. I wish I’d had this amazing recipe from Ottawa Valley Moms. MMM. Good. Personally, I think this is a great meal to make for your kids tomorrow night so you can go out on the town.

 

Ever wonder how you can get some extra veggies into your kids? How about grating some zucchini into chocolate quick bread? Personally, I can’t think of two ingredients that are better suited to each other, and neither can Canadian Moms Cook. Zucchini and chocolate are a match made in heaven. Give it a try.

 

Will you make any of these amazing recipes this week?

 

 

Get Grilling: Everything You Wanted To Know About Chicken Marinades

Grilled Asian Chicken

Get Grilling: Everything You Wanted To Know About Chicken Marinades

 

It’s Barbeque SEASON!! And that means marinades. Here’s my perfect primer to marinading chicken.

 

Maybe it’s because my nickname is Chicky, but I’m a big fan of the chipper chicken. Oh, sure there was that time that I was a lacto-ovo-pesco vegetarian for about four years (it’s a long story which can be blamed on a fashion designer and a plate of sweetbreads.) During that sad and dark period, I didn’t eat anything that had a face (as Linda McCartney used to say.) Yes, fish have faces, but they’re squished, and I wasn’t giving up shrimp and lobster for anyone.

 

Anyways, I’m back on chicken in a big way. But, as Franck (Father of the Bride reference), said, while chicken can be cheerful, it can also get boring. Luckily, I’ve mastered the art of the marinade. (Marinahde if you’re getting fancy.)

 

Marinades make everything taste better. And, it’s so easy to change up the flavours, depending on your mood and the other dishes you plan to serve. Make sure you prepare your chicken and marinade it for at least one hour before grilling or baking.

 

I’m not a chemist, but this is what I know what a good marinade needs to have:

  • An acid (vinegar, lemon juice, wine)
  • A moisturizer (like olive oil, vegetable oil, sesame oil, mustard)
  • Flavourings and herbs (Garlic. Always garlic)
You can put together any combo that tickles your fancy. Creating the perfect marinade is like parenting. Too much of anything and it can go terribly wrong, but the perfect balance can create something absolutely delicious.

 

Some of my fav marinade ingredients are:
  • Balsamic vinegar (I seriously put balsamic in just about everything).
  • Mustards (grainy mustard, green mustard, horseradish mustard. Mustards are perfect for adding flavour and moisture.)
  • Worcestershire sauce (for some reason, this hard to pronounce-and spell-brown sauce makes marinades sink in a work faster. Unless it’s asian flavours I’m after, I alway add a splash.)
  • Garlic, garlic, and more garlic
Chicken Marinade Ingredients

Chicken Marinade ingredients

 

One more tip: Don’t marinade in BBQ sauce. The sugar content will make the outside of your meat char before the inside can cook. Brush on about 3/4 through the cooking process and you’ll be as good as gold.

 

Now, I know some of you are not of the ‘pinch of this, pinch of that’ school, so here are some guaranteed to be hits marinades for you to try.

 

If you want to go real simple:
  • Olive Oil
  • A splash each of lemon juice, balsamic, & Worcestershire Sauce
  • Finely chopped fresh garlic
  • Freshly ground sea salt and black pepper
  • A handful of freshly chopped herbs (thyme, rosemary, sage)
If you want to be me…
  • Balsamic Vinegar
  • Grainy mustard
  • Generous amounts of La Grille Montreal Chicken Spice
  • Once around the bowl with Olive Oil and a generous splash of Worcesteshire Sauce
If you’re after a taste of the mediterranean…
  • Olive oil
  • Fresh lemon Juice
  • Green mustard (you can buy it at some specialty grocers. I get mine at Longos Markets in Toronto.)
  • Once around the bowl each of balsamic vinegar & Worcestershire sauce
  • Finely chopped fresh garlic
  • Oregano
  • Freshly ground sea salt & black pepper
If you’re a Canuck…
  • Balsamic Vinegar
  • Maple Syrup (not too much-see the point about bbq sauce)
  • Beer
  • Finely chopped fresh garlic
  • Rosemary
  • Olive Oil
  • Freshly ground sea salt & black pepper
If you’re looking for the slow boat to Asia…
  • Soy sauce
  • Finely chopped fresh garlic
  • Freshly ground black pepper
  • About 1 tbsp of chili garlic sauce (more garlic more garlic more garlic)
  • A good splash of sesame oil
  • Finely chopped fresh ginger (optional, my husband hates ginger)
  • About 1 tbsp of chopped cilantro (optional)
  • You can sprinkle with sesame seeds if you’re baking, or garnish with them if you’re bbq’ing
 What’s your favorite chicken marinade?

 

The Designers’ Guide to Yard Sale Shopping for the Non-Yard Sale Shopper

Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation Yard Sale for the Cure

Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation Yard Sale for the Cure

 

I’m no expert at garage sales. Once, I had one, and when someone tried to argue with me over 10 cents, I kicked him off my driveway. That is, after throwing the bag of used crayons at him, yelling, ‘If you need those broken Crayolas that badly, just take them!

 

However, it’s important to me to support  important causes like the Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation, and so, I’m sharing this information with you about the Yard Sale for the Cure (I might even have a Yard Sale of my own. My daughter is away in Israel and Greece, so I could just sell everything in her room. Click here and see why.) Or, I may just grab a bag of loonies and toonies and set out for a day of Yard Sale Shopping of my own.

 

Because I’m not an experienced yard/garage sale-r, I asked the folks at Yard Sale for the Cure to help me out with some tips. Here’s what they told me.

 

1. There’s no better adrenaline rush than:

 

a)Rising early on a Saturday morning. (Not true)

b)Downing a cup of hot coffee. (Semi-true. I sort of like to savour my java)

c)Hitting the road for a day of bargain hunting. (That could be fun.)

 

Oh wait, I don’t think those were multiple choice. I think I’m supposed to do them all at once while following these tips to be a kick-butt yardsaler.

 

A Guide to Yard Sale Shopping

A Designer’s Guide to Yard Sale Shopping for a Non-Yard Sale Shopper

 

When to shop?

  • The earlier you arrive, the greater the selection, but the later you go, the better the deal. (Think of 12 to 3 p.m. as peak-time for bargains!)
  • Furniture sells first—so go early if that’s what you’re after.
  • Make May 25thYard Sale for the Cure—your official Yard Sale shopping day. Not only will you snag fantastic finds and great deals but, the money you spend will help create a future without breast cancer!
  • Remember, if you like something, buy it! It might not be there if you think about it and come back later.

 

What to bring?

  • Cash! Yard sales only accept cash. Bring plenty of small bills so making change is easy. (Make sure your teenagers have no access to your wallet the night before.)
  •  Plan your budget before you hit the sales, or establish price limits for certain items so you don’t overspend. (Budget Schmudget. They’re bargains. That means you can buy 10 of them.)
  • Think about how you’ll get purchases home. If you don’t have a large vehicle, you can order a taxi minivan for $10 extra (on top of the fare price) and your item will be delivered to your front door. (My teenage sons are for rent.)

 

How to bargain? (This, I know. I don’t need lessons.)

  • Remember, good manners make for good negotiating. When you walk up to a table, say hello and be friendly. Never ask, “What’s your best price?” Instead, ask, “Would you consider less?” (See the first line of this post.)
  • To get the best bang for your buck, try asking for a set price for a group of items. For example: “How much for the three mirrors in the corner?” Sellers usually drop the price when you’re buying more than one item. (More is always better.)
  • Remember, it’s for charity.  

What to look for?

  • If your goal is to shop for home décor, go with an open mind. Most pieces need a little TLC to make them perfect.
  •  Ignore the colour of wood or the pattern of fabric and look for furniture with interesting bones (the shape of a chair or the quality of wood of a dresser). If you see something you love, you can bring it to an upholsterer or restorer and create a custom piece. (Or, just look on Pinterest. And then ruin it. Not that that ever happened to me.)

 

Hot Finds: Vintage linens and furs, old lamps and dressers, antique chairs and frames.

 

Best Deals: Children’s items, clothing, and toys; mismatched dishware and cutlery.  (Once, I was hosting a charity garage sale, and my son was trying on these rollerblades, and took off, and someone tried to buy his brand new Nikes for $5. True story.)

 

Now that you’re prepped for a season of successful Yard Sale shopping, visit yardsaleforthecure.com/find-sale to find a Yard Sale for the Cure event in your community!

Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation

Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation

 

 

Our Romantic Mini-Break At Viamede Resort.

Relaxing in the Viamede Resort's Boathouse Pub

Relaxing in the Viamede Resort’s Boathouse Pub

 

I walked into Viamede Resort in the Kawarthas on a spring afternoon that thought it was winter. If it wasn’t for the strange flurries of snow and the absence of Patrick Swayze, I could have been stepping right into the movie Dirty Dancing.

 

I was in old-school heaven. The kind that’s privately owned and managed hand-on. That’s back-to-basics luxury with an actual wooden phone booth and orchestrated with cloth napkins and heavenly locally driven food. That’s welcoming and warm, and glad you’re there. That doesn’t require great weather to have an incredible time. That kind of heaven.

 

Rewind a few weeks to when I was asked if I’d like to visit Viamede, a four-season (well, really three-ish, dingy March/April excluded) resort about 2 1/2 hours from Toronto.

 

Umm…Hells Yeah. My last vacation did not go well, and I was ready for another one.

 

Did I want to bring my kids? Three teenagers on my romantic mini-break in the country?  No way. They were staying home to watch the dogs, and the husband and I were riding off into the sunset. Or, as it turned out back in time to where comfort is paramount, food is delicious, and smiles are totally free.

 

Viamede is a little gem of a resort NorthEast of Toronto.  Quieter, less crowded, easier to get to, less expensive, and definitely less pretentious than the Muskokas, the Kawarthas, which are just North of Peterborough, Ontario are synonymous (in my mind anyways) with Kawarthas Dairy Ice Cream. And now, with the excellent service and beautiful surroundings of Viamede.

 

I asked Ben Samann, the General Manager of the resort, why he thinks his resort is so special. His response reflected the love and care that you can see in every facet of his organization, from the incredible staff to the spectacular food and stunning grounds.

 

As to less tangible awesomeness, I love Viamede because it truly is a special place. We have 170 acres and 2000 feet of waterfront, for a maximum of 150 guests. We have more space than we know what to do with, which has led to projects like the farm, disc-golf course, and collaboration with a local survival school. As to our food, you experienced it yourself -  we have a fantastic team that really love making good food. 

 

Viamede Resort in the Kawarthas

Viamede Resort in the Kawarthas

 

Ben has been with the resort for a few years, and has made it his project to create the premiere destination in the province. From cosmetic updates to physical plant and new buildings, he has made significant improvements. He’s also brought in a whole new team of staff, many from Toronto, to create a superior guest experience and offer new services and recreation options.

 

Although we were at Viamede just as the lake was melting, and couldn’t really take advantage of any of the amazing activities that are offered, we could still see the attention to detail and and beauty of the location, from the expansive waterfront area to the rustic walking paths and  the stunning 1872 church (what a locale for a wedding.)

Since I’m pretty lazy laid-back, I had no problem with allowing the real stars of our show to shine: the relaxing atmosphere of our immaculate suite and the incredible food.

 

Viamede Resort-Accommodations

Viamede Resort-Accommodations

 

You KNOW that I lit that fire. I’m a woman of many talents. That was the most activity I did in 48 hours.

 

The food. Viamede boasts three restaurants-the Boathouse Pub, the 1885 dining room, and the Inn at Mount Julian (which offers a world-class tasting menu). I definitely ate my weight over the weekend, as well as experiencing a few food-gasms. I was almost tempted to go for a long walk to work off the food, but then it was time for the next meal.

 

Viamede Resort: The Food

Viamede Resort: The Food

 

One of our wait staff told us about the farm that Ben has started on the property, so I asked him about it. I wanted to know if they were planning on growing their own food. No, Ben told me, the real purpose of the farm is to connect guests with where their food comes from.

 

Well, the farm is a budding project that was started 2 summers ago with ducks and pigs. The pigs are a heritage Tamworth breed, and we are actually now getting back the piglets from one of the sows we raised in 2011.  Oddly enough, we produce very few vegetables, although we will be planting more this year. We don’t really produce enough to substantially affect the menu, so we order much of our produce from local farmers. 

 

We do a few hog roasts each year, and those come from our own hogs. Duck eggs get used in our home made pasta (and my personal omelettes at home, honestly). The turkeys are served at Thanksgiving and Christmas parties. Quail eggs will be a new thing this year, and we will see how many we can produce. During the day, all of our birds get free roam of the property, and every day at 3:30, we have a farm tour where the guests get to help herd the animals back into their pens. The friendly pigs usually come out to say hi, and often get kitchen scraps hand-fed to them. 

 

Viamide is truly a place for all seasons, and has activities to please everyone, whether your goal is to get a great workout snowshoeing, relax and recharge, stuff your face, or try your luck at stand-up paddle boarding, hydro biking, or yes, even pig farming.

 

We had a fantastic time with Ben and his staff. We relaxed, we ate, we hung out and just spent time as a couple. I have to tell you that we can’t wait to go back to Viamede to enjoy the Spa, waterfront, and other amenities. And, we might even bring the kiddos with us. There’s definitely enough happening to keep the teenagers busy and out of our hair. Worse comes to worst, we can send them to feed the pigs.

 

Note:  I was GENEROUSLY provided a weekend at Viamede for the purposes of this review. All opinons are my own, and I’m still full, to tell you the truth. And maybe a bit drunk. Their bar staff does a generous pour.

 

Bread Machine Challah, the Clean Eating Way

 

Vegetarian Bread Machine Challah

Bread Machine Challah the Vegetarian and Clean Eating Way

 

At our house we love Challah, a rich and delicious Jewish egg bread. I always feel sorry for those who have never tried Challah, and I seriously don’t think you have to be part of the Jew Crew to enjoy this fluffy, moist bread.

 

Making my own Challah has become a very rewarding and satisfying experience. I truly believe, just like anything else, homemade is better than store bought (mostly because of all the love that goes into it.)

 

Now, to clarify, when I say homemade, I do not mean hand-kneaded. I’m no hero, and I’m not shy or ashamed to say that I use a breadmaker to take my ingredients to risen dough. I don’t, however, like the taste of bread baked in the machine (plus I like to shape a Challah like a Challah), and so I shape it by hand, let it rise, and bake it off in the oven.

 

Since I’ve been trying to eat leaner and cleaner, I’ve been experimenting with all kinds of substitutions (like when I used coconut oil to make Mediterranean chicken or no fat at all for vegetable soup.)  And so, I figured I’d give it a shot with my regular Challah recipe. I knew that tinkering with a baking recipe was a bit of a crapshoot, as baking is chemistry and I’m not mathematician (or something like that.) But, I figured that the changes I was going to make were with ‘like-for-like’ ingredients, and also, what would I have to lose except a loaf of bread. The only modification I did not make was with the flour. I don’t like the taste of whole-wheat Challah. Some things should not be tinkered with. I did however, use unbleached flour. You could certainly use whole-wheat all-purpose flour, though, if you’re really determined. But, to me, it’s all about balance.

 

I have to tell you that this Challah is probably one of the most gorgeous-looking ones I’ve ever made. The dough came out lighter and silkier than ever before. It rose to epic proportions (it was LARGER than my sister’s 3 month old baby), and was SO huge that once I had to cool it on two racks. Everyone is very impressed with me.

 

Bread Machine Challah the vegetarian and clean eating way

Look how BIG this Challah was!! It had to cool on two racks

 

What you’ll need:

 

1 cup of unsweetened Almond Milk (I used Almond Fresh)

2 large eggs (if you want to make it vegan, go ahead, but I’m not sure how you have egg bread without egg)

3 tbsp Coconut Oil (I finished up one tub of no-odour, but the second smelled like coconut, which made the bread smell amazing, and gave it a lovely hint of coconut taste)

3 2/3 unbleached all-purpose flour (US is 3 1/3 as your flour is more dense)

3 tbsp Coconut Sugar (I use this one, which you can buy at Costco in a huge bag.)

1 tsp salt

1 tbsp bread machine yeast or all-purpose yeast

1 egg mixed with 1 tsp water (for glaze)

Topping: sesame seeds, poppy seeds, kosher salt

 

What You’ll Do:

 

Add ingredients to your bread machine in the order specified by the manufacturer’s directions. Set it to dough and come back later.

 

When the dough is ready, let it rest on a floured surface (if it’s sticky, add a bit more flour). After about 5 minutes, knead the dough slightly. Using a cutter, section the dough into a 2/3 and 1/3 ratio. Set the smaller piece aside. Cut the larger piece into three. Roll them out into even length ropes. Braid them. Do the same with the piece you set aside, and place the smaller one on top of the larger one.

 

Voila. YOU have braided a Challah!!!

 

Place your Challah on a large baking sheet covered in parchment. Place a tea towel over it, and put it in a nice, warm dry place for the last rise (I have double ovens so I put it in one of the ovens).

 

Preheat your oven to 350 degrees (if you’re doing the rise in the oven, make sure to take the dough out!) When your Challah has doubled in size it’s ready to be brushed with the egg and water mixture, and topped with any one of the suggested toppings (I use all because I like to.)

 

Bake for about 45 minutes, give or take 15. Your Challah will sound hollow when tapped when it’s ready.

 

Enjoy!!

 

 

I’ve Got all These Vegetables Soup

Quick and easy pureed vegetable soup

I’ve Got all These Vegetables Soup

There are days when it’s raining and you sat in traffic all day and the kids have programs and you’re tired and you just don’t feel like cooking. There are days that are soup days. Fast, easy, vegetable soup days.

 

If you’re lucky, one of those days might be when the BBQ Rotisserie chickens are on special at your local grocery store (in fact, the store that I mostly shop at, Longos Markets, has them on for $7.99 every Wednesday. Seriously, I can’t cook a chicken for that price.) Personally, I don’t feel at all bad about buying a rotisserie chicken. Ninety four percent of the time, my family gets completely homemade food, or a very sincere replica thereof (I keep a stash of Longos tomato basil and arrabiata sauces in my cupboard, and they pass muster because they have the same four ingredients I would put in my homemade sauce. Also, I don’t make homemade french fries. I don’t have a deep fryer) My family gets so much homemade food that sometimes my youngest will actually BEG for what he calls ‘freezer food’.

 

So, no, I don’t feel bad about Rotisserie chicken. (My sister, who writes at Urban Moms, no longer does either.)

 

So, back to last Wednesday, where the weather was crap and one of the kids had been out playing Lacrosse in weird-April-weather freezing rain all day, and the other was hacking with a wicked cough, and in general, it was a day to roll up the rug and crawl into bed. But first, between hot showers and big duvets, those boys had to be fed.

 

Soup. To go with the chicken. That would be ticket. And also a way to get rid of some of the veggies lurking in my fridge.

 

Add some of my favourite Sprouted Rice & Quinoa blend from Tru-Roots, and a comforting and extremely healthy dinner could on the table in about 45 minutes, start to finish.

 

One of the easiest and healthiest things that I make is a pureed vegetable soup. You pretty much cannot go wrong with it-chop up a bunch of vegetables, really whatever you have got in the fridge will do, add water, some seasonings, boil, puree, and voila, you have soup. If I’m putting leeks (much yummier than onions), I sautee them in some melted fat (you can use a combination of 1 tbsp of butter and one tbsp of olive oil, or 2 tbsp of coconut oil-preferably the unscented kind.)

 

You’ll notice that the seasonings are very simple (salt, pepper, and herbs) as this soup is a place to let the flavour of vegetables SHINE.

 

Prep time:

10 minutes

Cooking Time:

40 minutes

 

What you’ll need:

 

About three large carrots, peeled and cut into chunks

 

About 4/5 ribs of celery, including the foliage, cut into chunks

 

Add any combination of the following (eg. whatever is starting to go bad in your fridge that is puree-able. I don’t recommend eggplant or bell peppers):

 

2-43 large leeks, cut about two inches above where the white turns green, slices and then rinsed VERY well in cold water (I actually slice them and then soak in a colander placed in a bowl of cold water.

 

4 cups of butternut squash, peeled & cut into chunks (I buy it already cut. Also, squash makes the soup really really creamy and smooth.)

 

1/2 large cauliflower, cut into chunks

 

3-4 peeled parsnips, peeled and cut into chunks

 

2 medium turnips, peeled and cut into chunks

 

Stems of one large bunch of broccoli (don’t you save the stems?), peeled, and cut into chunks, plus the ‘trees’ of 1/2 the bunch

 

Asparagus, cut into chunks

 

1 medium Zucchini, cut into chunks

 

Optional:

1 cup fresh Italian leaf parsley, chopped

1/2 cup fresh dillweed, chopped

1/2 cup fresh cilantro, chopped (I added Cilantro this week with a cauliflower/broccoli/squash combo)

 

Note: I don’t recommend adding greens until the end, if you’re in a kale kinda mood. 

 

What You’ll Do:

 

Grab a large dutch oven or soup pot. If you’re using leeks, melt either coconut oil or a combo of butter and oil in the pot. Add your leeks, stirring until they start to glisten and get soft. Dump the rest of the vegetables in your pot. Add water to cover. Add salt and pepper (don’t worry, you can add more later).

 

Vegetable soup cooking

I’ve Got all These Vegetable Soup

 

Bring to the boil, cover, and simmer for about 30-40 minutes, until vegetables are soft. Take the post off the burner (or if you’re gas like me, turn the burner off.) Using an immersion hand blender, puree the soup until all of the ingredients are incorporated. Add your fresh herbs, and stir. If you want to add some chopped cooking greens, go ahead and do that here.

 

Adjust your seasonings, stir, and let simmer for about 10 more minutes.

 

Sometimes I add matzo balls or noodles to the soup. You can serve with crusty bread also.

 

Your next question is what immersion blender do I use? And why don’t I put the soup in a blender to puree. I’ll address the second question first. Because I’m me, and if I tried to pour hot soup in a blender, that would not end well. Also, why would I do that when I can stick something right into the pot.

 

I use my recently acquired Cuisinart Power Trio (before I had a Braun, but goodbye old friend, hello new amazing one.)

 

Cuisinart Power Trio Hand Blender

Cuisinart Power Trio Hand Blender

 

Why is it so great?

  • It’s stainless steel and super easy to clean
  • I love how it feels in my hand
  • It blends and purees like nobody has ever blended before.
  • It replaces three other small appliances hat I had (stick immersion blender, mini-chopper, hand mixer)
Note: I attended an event and Cuisinart gifted me with a Power Trio Hand Blender. The usage ideas and opinions are my own. 

 

 

 

Check for Firefighters from the Bath with Rogers Smart Home Monitoring

Rogers Smart Home Monitoring

Rogers Smart Home Monitoring

My husband and I are going away for the weekend (you’ll read about it next week.) And, we’re leaving the kids alone to take care of the dogs and the fishes. Well, really the 17-year old. The 13-year old has been offloaded to a friend.

 

Am I worried? Nope. This guy is very responsible. The good sort. He won’t have a party (mostly because he doesn’t want to clean up the mess or risk anyone touching his stuff).

 

He also won’t have a party because we have Smart Home Monitoring from Rogers. And Smart Home Monitoring from Rogers has VIDEO CAMERAS.

 

Yep, we’ve got a camera on the back door, and the outside and inside of the front door. Every time one of those doors opens, the system takes five pictures. That’s a party buzz kill if I’ve ever heard one.

 

I have to tell you that prior to Smart Home Monitioring (I can’t even call it a house alarm. It’s much more than that…), I was not a big fan of alarm systems. I was a little wary of using them and paranoid that I would arm the system and it would start to go off and then the police and the firetrucks would come. While I am a big appreciator of firemen, I am not a fan of the bill that they give you for multiple false alarms. Also, if I’m going to have firemen to my home, I’d like to be properly groomed and attired in stilettos.

 

Now, though, I’m a convert. The Smart Home Monitoring is so easy to set up and use. I can arm and disarm it and view any of the cameras or other features (like checking the weather), from the keypad, the tablet they provided, or my smartphone.

 

Rogers smart home monitoring

Rogers Smart Home Monitoring Computer & App Interfaces

 

Rogers Smart Home Monitoring Touchpad

Rogers Smart Home Monitoring Touchpad

 

Yes, my smartphone.

 

Rogers Smart Home Monitoring Phone App

Rogers Smart Home Monitoring Phone App

 

 

Scenario #1:

Imagine you’re in your bedroom watching Young and the Restless working from home, while wearing a see-through white tank and pyjama pants (at 2:00 in the afternoon) and the doorbell rings. Since your husband is averse to you answering the door to delivery-men attired thus, you go into the Smart Home Monitoring app on your iPhone and click on the front door camera. You see that it’s the UPS man and so you quickly throw on a sweatshirt and run downstairs to answer the door. (Side question: do you throw on a sweatshirt if its a young, buff gardener?)

 

Scenario #2:

Imagine you’re in your laying on your bed.. Oh scratch that. People don’t do that ALL the time. Imagine you’re in the bath, and you hear your dogs barking. You don’t know if they’re at the back door wanting to go out, or the front door guarding the home like they are wont to do (guarding means not letting anyone walk on along the street. For any reason) You carefully pick up your iPhone (don’t drop it in the bath….) and check the cameras. Nope, they don’t have to go out. But, it’s a young, buff gardener at the front door… (where is this going?)

 

Scenario #3:

You’re at a business meeting and you’re bored. You pick up your iPhone and open the Smart Home Monitoring app. After checking all three cameras, you click on the button for the lights. You start turning the living room light on and off for fun, imagining that everyone in your house thinks they’re in an episode of American Horror story.

 

Anyways, I’m sure you can see that there are many fantastic applications of the Rogers Smart Home Monitoring System well beyond just arming your windows and doors (did I mention that I have lasers across some of my windows?)

 

Rogers Smart Home Monitoring is  available in:

Ontario-The Greater Toronto Area, Hamilton, Niagara and other Golden Horseshoe cities

New Brunswick-Saint John, Frederickton, and Moncton

Newfoundland-St. John’s

 

Disclosure: I received a full Rogers Smart Home Monitoring System to try for one year. The opinions are my own.

If You Like it, Put Your Name on It at Minted.Com

 

minted custom stationery

Minted.com personalized, custom stationery and paper products

 

I have to confess that I’m a sucker for pretty things. I’m one of those people who wanders through Sephora looking at both the packaging and the makeup. I have actually bought a book or an item because I loved the box or the design ( I totally judge a book by it’s cover). It follows, then, that I adore paper products and stationary-the very reason to buy them is in their visual attractiveness (oh, right, and also their usefulness. I mean, one can’t have too many notebooks).

 

What do you do for fun? Me? I like to browse online stationary sites imagining what I would do with all of the goodies. One of the my favourite sites out there is called Minted.

 

From their About Me…

‘Minted is a global community of independent graphic designers and an online store that prints and sells the best of their designs in the form of paper goods.

We believe that great design lives and thrives in the hands of indie designers that people may not have access to through traditional retailers. Our goal is to use technology to allow our community to discover the work of great designers from all over the world. And at the same time, create a place where designers can get exposure and build their careers.
Minted holds monthly design challenges for stationery, invitations, calendars, and other categories and all graphic designers are invited to enter. The Minted community selects the best designs in a highly competitive process, which gives us a top selection of the freshest, finest cards in the world. Winning designers earn cash prizes, a place in the Minted collection, and commissions on all sales of their designs.’
 

I love that there are 43 countries represented in Minted’s designs. Every piece is completely unique and special, and even more so once you customize it. Letting me order my own set of notecards was like setting Veruca Salt loose in a candy factory. I had a real problem deciding (luckily, I wasn’t in the market for wedding invites or baby announcements or you wouldn’t be reading this.)

 

I was able to choose by style, note size and shape, colour, or price. Obviously I went for Modern and Bold (because I’m me), although I was very attracted to the Vintage, Whimsical, and Preppy styles as well. Luckily, this one called my name, and so, I put my name on it.

 

minted custom stationary

Minted Custom/Personalized Stationary for Women

 

It was really easy to use the site, to personalize my choice and to explore the upgrades. The products are the perfect example of ‘you get what you pay for’. While my cards were not inexpensive, they are absolutely gorgeous-on amazing paper stock- and arrived at my house within a matter of days and packaged so beautifully I didn’t want to mess around with the box. (The ribbon even matched the ink colour that I picked. Can you believe that kind of attention to detail?)

 

I count myself lucky that Minted gave me this gift of beautiful stationery. Now, I can write my son while he’s away at camp and I’m drinking Mojitos to match the ink on the cards missing him terribly.

 

As soon as I shared pictures of my new cards on Twitter, I realized that I needed to share the love ( I’m unselfish like that). Minted has offered to give one of you a $50 gift certificate to order something gorgeous off their site.

 

How to enter:

1. Go to the Minted.com and explore their site.

2. Tell me which item you would buy if you won the contest.

3. For additional entries (one per action):

-Share this contest on Facebook and or Twitter (@minted @chickymara)

-Like my Facebook Page

-Subscribe to my blog

 

(Don’t forget to let me know how many entries you get by commenting!)

 

Contest runs from 8 am Thursday, April 18, 2013 to 4 pm Thursday, April 25th. Open to residents of Canada and the United States and happy people who love to laugh.

 

The ONE condition for winning is that you have to come back and show me what you bought either by tweeting me a picture or sharing it on the Facebook page!

 

According to Random.org, the third entry is the WINNER!! CONGRATS mom2Michael (Deborah Coombs)!!!!

Buytopia DEAL: Homeseal Insulation and Duct Cleaning

spring cleaning means duct cleaning time

Obviously, this is a picture of my cleaning lady Photo source: www.dkssystems.com (google images)

 

It’s springtime. Which means spring cleaning (which I don’t really do, but that’s what people say is supposed to happen in spring). Apparently part of spring cleaning is getting your ducts cleaned. I feel like having dirty ducts is one of those things I like to pretend isn’t happening. But, it’s a necessary part of home maintenance-especially if you want to have a healthy family who is breathing clean air and you have wicked environmental allergies like I do.

 

Like all homekeeping expenses, it’s an cost I’d dread spending money on I mean, would I rather buy a new pair of shoes (or several) or have my ducts cleaned? It’s like painting my garage. I know it needs doing, but I just don’t want to face the music.

 

That’s why it was my lucky day when my Buytopia Deal was for …. YES… Duct cleaning!! Sometimes life just works out grandly. All it took to make the magic happen was a quick call to Homeseal Insulation and Duct Cleaning and the purging of my ducts was arranged. (I have to tell you that the thought of seeing what was in my ducts with their before and after videoing totally grossed me out and was made worth it only by thinking about how CLEAN the area would be afterwards. Also what made me happy was that I just have dirty ducts and none of my kids has ever had lice. Random, I know, but still something to be grateful for.)

 

The technician, Bradley Jones, showed up very promptly (good thing it was a day I chose to get dressed. My husband doesn’t really like it when I greet service people in my jammies), and asked to see my furnace. He was inordinately excited at the access window next to the furnace area in my basement, which motivated him to quickly get to work. He was also very nice to my dogs, which is a big plus in my books. After locating all my vents, he stuck his arm into the main vent (I was too scared I’d drop my iPhone in there so he used his own phone) and took a disgusting picture of the state of my house’s innards. He Promised! to get that all cleaned up so I could breathe clean (he also put some kind of sanitizer in there which was to kill germs and stuff and smelled like it works).

 

After about an hour and a half, the job was done. And Bradley, being the doll that he is, even took the schmutz out of my dryer vents (a job assigned to my husband, and one which he’s obviously not doing.)

 

This is what my vents looked like BEFORE Bradley and Homeseal had at them

 

ducts that really need cleaning

EW. Before Homeseal Insulation and Duct cleaning had at it

 

AND THIIS IS WHAT THEY LOOKED LIKE AFTER!

 

ducts after duct cleaning

So pretty. Ducts after Homeseal cleaned them

 

I’m pretty sure you want to go on Buytopia now and purchase your own Homeseal Duct Cleaning deal ($79 for $200 worth of services). Don’t delay-the deal expires March 25th. 

 

For more about Homeseal, visit their Website. 

 

PS I’m part of the Buytopia Blogger affiliate program. I was provided my duct cleaning in exchange for writing this review. But, if I didn’t like it, I’d say so.